Why do straights hate gays? — my thoughts 6
I just read an open letter from Larry Kramer to all straight people.
What do we do to you that is so awful? Why do you feel compelled to come after us with such frightful energy? Does this somehow make you feel safer and legitimate? What possible harm comes to you if we marry, or are taxed just like you, or are protected from assault by laws that say it is morally wrong to assault people out of hatred? The reasons always offered are religious ones, but certainly they are not based on the love all religions proclaim.
-- Larry Kramer
I've always put the discrimination down to fear and misunderstanding. How many people confuse homosexuality with pedophilia? However I think in the last 10 years or so, when these issues have actively been in my conscious, my belief in that argument doesn't quite hold true. There has to be more that fear.
Then there's the fear that a gay will hit on you. I can see how this could challenge some, but I think the fear comes from a severe lack of understanding. Because they're gay doesn't mean they want you, and if they did, a polite "no thanks, I love boobs" would solve the problem. No harm done.
It's no secret that in the last few months switched my stance from "atheist" to "strong atheist" (and some might argue "aggressively strong atheist") and I think the last line in the above quote explains most of the reasons for my shift. Connecting the dots: I don't like people that can't think for themselves. Religious followers often (but definitely not always) display this characteristic, and are easily led. Anyone who is religious and preaches love and compassion, but hates gays is the worst mix of the worst traits. Just think about what it is you really believe. I'm not talking about heaven and hell, but humanity and kindness - the traits that modern religions claim to promote. To my understanding, there is no asterisk next to "love thy neighbour" referring to a footnote that says "so long as they are straight". Practice what you believe not what you're told. If there's contradictions ask why.
I definitely agree with all of the points raised in Larry's article. I was really saddened by the despair and frustration that the article contains. Fuck, this is 2007 not 1907.
What are you going to do come this federal election, if this is an important issue for you?
Whilst I think the fact that it was addressed to "straight people" (which includes me and most of my friends) and not "hateful straight people" is borderline-offensive, I'm prepared to overlook it because I understand the intent. But let it be known if there's ever a "them and us" devision I'll be on their side fighting against us.
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